I would say do not feel intimidated by people in wheel chairs, and realize they are just like you and that they have feeling too. Be open with them and b a good friend, supporting their dreams, needs, and desires. Know that they do not want pity, they want inclusion and love more than anything. And the one thing I learned in training at people Inc. Is the word GEM: it means think when working with individuals, is it good enough for me? Treat people with respect and dignity, it is what we all expect, right?